New Year's Resolution 2024

"Starting Afresh: Your Guide to Realistic New Year's Resolutions"

As the New Year approaches, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the past and contemplating the future. It is a time of transition, an opportunity to shed the old and embrace the new. Amidst the festivities and celebrations, the tradition of setting New Year's resolutions holds a special significance. In Philippians 3:13-15 (NLT), the Apostle Paul provides valuable insights that can guide us in making meaningful resolutions that go beyond mere self-improvement.

Philippians 3:13-15 (NLT): "13 No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us. 15 Let all who are spiritually mature agree on these things. If you disagree on some point, I believe God will make it plain to you."

Learning from Failures:

In these verses, Paul acknowledges that he has not yet attained perfection but emphasizes the importance of leaving behind the past and focusing on the journey ahead. This powerful message encourages us to learn from our failures, recognizing that mistakes are stepping stones to growth. As we set resolutions for the coming year, it’s important that we embrace the idea that our past does not define us; rather, it shapes us for a better future.

Biblical References:

1. Proverbs 24:16 (NLT) - The godly may trip seven times, but they will get up again. But one disaster is enough to overthrow the wicked. This verse reassures us that setbacks are a part of the journey, but the righteous persevere and rise above their failures.

2. Romans 8:28 (NLT) - And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. This verse reminds us that God can turn our failures into opportunities for growth and transformation.

Supporting Statistics:

Research indicates that individuals who set specific goals are more likely to achieve them. According to a study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology, people who explicitly make resolutions are 10 times more likely to attain their goals than those who don't.

Furthermore, the act of setting resolutions has been linked to increased levels of motivation and a positive impact on mental health. In a survey conducted by the American Psychological Association, individuals who set and monitored their New Year's resolutions reported a higher sense of well-being compared to those who did not engage in this practice.

Conclusion:

As we stand on the threshold of a new year, me must approach our resolutions with a spirit of redemption and growth. Inspired by the wisdom of Philippians 3:13-15, let us cast aside the weight of past failures, understanding that they are opportunities for learning and improvement. By combining biblical principles with practical insights, we can embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation, confident that God's grace is sufficient to guide us through every step of the way. May the coming year be a testament to our resilience, growth, and unwavering commitment to press on toward the heavenly prize that awaits us.

Back to School: A Christian Father's Perspective

Proverbs 22:6 - A Reminder to Teach Our Children in the Ways of the Lord

In a world filled with distractions and ever-changing values, parents hold the responsibility of guiding their children toward a path of righteousness. Proverbs 22:6, as translated in the New Living Translation, succinctly reminds us of this duty: "Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it." This proverb highlights the importance of instilling Godly values in our children's lives and actively staying involved in their journeys.

1. The Foundation of Faith

Proverbs 22:6 emphasizes the significance of laying a strong spiritual foundation for our children. As parents, we are called to teach them about the ways of the Lord, introducing them to God's word and His principles. Early exposure to faith-based teachings can help children build a solid moral compass that will guide them through life's challenges. We cannot put this responsibility on the teachers, Sunday school teachers, or pastors alone. In the Old and New Testaments, God makes it clear that this is the parent’s responsibility.

2. Shielding Against Worldly Influences

In today's hyper-connected world, children are constantly exposed to various influences, not all, and quite frankly very few of which align with Godly principles. The Bible recognizes the world's allurements and temptations, cautioning against conforming to its patterns (Romans 12:2). By teaching our children about the ways of the Lord, we equip them to discern right from wrong, empowering them to resist worldly pressures and stay focused on God's path. Ultimately, our children will only value what we as parents value and this includes influences (more on this later). To be clear, just as Jesus said “I’m not asking you to take them out of the world, but to keep them safe from the evil one. 16 They do not belong to this world any more than I do.” (John 17:15-16) I am not advocating we shelter our children but I am stressing the importance of equipping our children for the opposition they will meet.

3. Nurturing Spiritual Growth

Parents play a crucial role in nurturing their children's spiritual growth. It is not merely enough to introduce faith; we must also cultivate it through continued guidance, prayer, and modeling a Godly life. As we actively engage in their spiritual journey, our children witness the authenticity of our faith, reinforcing the significance of a personal relationship with God.

4. Instilling Values and Virtues

The teachings of the Bible are rich with wisdom, emphasizing virtues like love, compassion, integrity, and humility. The teaching of this world is selfishness, carnality, and pride. When our children go to school they are taught to fulfill their selfish desires by the school system and friends. By imparting these values to our children, we equip them to become responsible and compassionate individuals who contribute positively to society. As they grow, these values will serve as a compass, helping them navigate the complexities of life with grace and wisdom.

5. Leading by Example

Children learn by example, the old saying “do as I say not as I do” is a poor model for parenting. We will be our children’s first influence and the question you have to ask yourself is “If our children live like us would we be proud?” Parental involvement and consistent living of Godly principles are crucial in their spiritual development. Our actions should align with the teachings we impart to them, showing them the practical application of faith in daily life. When we lead by example, our children are more likely to internalize the values we hold dear and carry them into adulthood.

6. Building Trust and Open Communication

Staying involved in our children's lives fosters open communication and trust. When our children know they can turn to us for guidance, encouragement, and support, they are more likely to seek our counsel when facing difficult decisions. By actively engaging in their lives, we become a safe haven where they can share their joys and struggles, knowing they will receive understanding and empathy.

Proverbs 22:6 serves as a poignant reminder of the immense responsibility parents bear in shaping their children's spiritual journey. Teaching our children in the ways of the Lord and remaining actively involved in their lives lays a strong foundation that can withstand the storms of life and protect them from any deception or danger that they may face. As we impart Godly values and virtues, shield them from worldly influences, and lead by example, we set them on a path that aligns with God's will.

Celebrating Freedom on the 4th of July

As the summer heat intensifies, especially here in Temecula, the people of the United States prepare to celebrate the Fourth of July, a day that holds great significance for the nation's history. For Christians, this day represents an opportunity to reflect on our faith, the principles that shaped our nation, and the freedom we enjoy. In this blog, we will explore the Fourth of July from a Christian perspective, examining biblical scriptures that highlight the importance of freedom, gratitude, and our role as citizens.

1. Freedom in Christ:

Galatians 5:1 reminds us, "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free." As Christians, we understand that true freedom comes through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. The Fourth of July serves as a powerful reminder of the freedom we have received through His sacrifice. This freedom allows us to experience the forgiveness of sins, the power of the Holy Spirit, and the promise of eternal life. Let us rejoice in this liberty and share the Good News with others who have yet to experience it.

2. Gratitude for God's Blessings:

On this day, it is essential to express gratitude for the many blessings we have received as a nation. James 1:17 declares, "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights." The freedom we enjoy is a gift from God, and it is our responsibility to use it wisely and for His glory. As we celebrate with fireworks, barbecues, and gatherings, let’s remember to give thanks to the One who has blessed us abundantly.

3. Love for Our Neighbors:

Galatians 5:13 reminds us, "You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love." We are called to love our neighbors and serve them selflessly. The Fourth of July offers a unique opportunity to demonstrate this love by reaching out to our communities, and reminding them that they can also experience this freedom that was already paid for by the crucifixion, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Let our celebration be a reflection of the love and compassion of Christ.

4. Praying for Our Nation:

First Timothy 2:1-2 urges believers to pray for those in authority, stating, "I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession, and thanksgiving be made for all people—for kings and all those in authority." As patriotic citizens, we should intercede on behalf of our nation, its leaders, and its citizens. Let us use this day to offer fervent prayers for unity, wisdom, and guidance for our leaders, so that they may govern with righteousness and justice.

The Fourth of July is a time of celebration, reflection, and gratitude for what Christ has done and the greatest nation on God’s green earth. As we commemorate the birth of our nation, let us remember the biblical principles that shaped it and continue to guide us today. Let us treasure the freedom we have in Christ, express gratitude for God's blessings, love our neighbors selflessly, and pray earnestly for our nation. By doing so, we can honor God and be agents of hope, change, and freedom in Christ to those that desperately need it. Happy Independence Day!

Happy Father's Day

Father's Day is a special occasion to celebrate and honor the men who have shaped our lives and faith. Whether they are our biological fathers, adoptive fathers, stepfathers, grandfathers, or spiritual fathers, they play an important role in our development and well-being. As someone who grew up without a father, I did not have a good start at fatherhood but I was blessed to be saved in a fellowship that taught me what a man of God and father is supposed to be.

"And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise" - Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV).

This scripture emphasizes the responsibility of fathers to diligently teach God's commandments to their children. It highlights the importance of consistent and intentional instruction in the ways of God within the family unit. By prioritizing the spiritual upbringing of their children, fathers play a crucial role in passing on the faith from generation to generation.

"And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." - Ephesians 6:4 (KJV)

This verse from the New Testament encourages fathers to raise their children in the "nurture and admonition of the Lord," highlighting their role in providing spiritual guidance and instruction. It emphasizes the importance of fathers in nurturing their children's faith and character development, while also cautioning against actions that could lead to anger or resentment in their children.

The Father’s Role and Example

1. Spiritual Leadership: Fathers are seen as spiritual leaders within their families and the church community. They are expected to guide and nurture their children's faith, providing a strong moral and spiritual foundation. This includes teaching biblical principles, leading family devotions, and setting an example of faithfulness.

2. Role Model for Children: Fathers serve as role models for their children, demonstrating godly characteristics and values. By modeling love, kindness, integrity, and a commitment to God, fathers can influence their children's spiritual growth and development.

3. Family Stewardship: Fathers are responsible for the well-being and spiritual upbringing of their families. They are encouraged to prioritize their family's spiritual needs, engage in regular worship and fellowship, and create an environment that supports the growth of faith within the home.

4. Discipleship and Mentoring: Fathers are called to disciple and mentor their children, helping them develop a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. This involves investing time, providing guidance, answering questions, and assisting in their children's spiritual journey.

5. Fatherhood as a Reflection of God's Relationship: In evangelical theology, fatherhood is often seen as reflecting the relationship between God the Father and humanity. Fathers are encouraged to emulate God's love, forgiveness, and discipline, aiming to foster a healthy understanding of God's nature through their interactions with their children.

6. Nurturing Emotional and Physical Well-being: Alongside their spiritual responsibilities, fathers are also called to provide emotional support and care for their families. This includes being present, listening to their children, and fostering healthy relationships within the family unit. Additionally, fathers are encouraged to prioritize the physical well-being and safety of their families.

How Fathers Affect Children Indirectly

Unfortunately, the following is overlooked or not seen as important. Fathers can also influence children's well-being indirectly through their relationship with the child's mother. Conflict between parents is detrimental to children's well-being, especially if conflict is hostile and unresolved. Supportive co-parenting relationships, by contrast, are related to better self-regulation and fewer behavior problems in children. Families function as entire systems.

How The Church Can Help

As a church, we can support fathers in their role as caregivers, protectors, providers, and leaders by:

 - As a fellowship we teach and emphasize biblical principles of fatherhood: The church provides regular teachings, sermons, and Bible studies that highlight the importance of fatherhood based on biblical principles. This can include emphasizing the responsibilities of fathers to love, lead, protect, and provide for their families.

 - Celebrate and honor fathers and not cave to the idea of “toxic masculinity” but instead encourage male leadership in the home.

 - Pray for fathers: The church can regularly pray for fathers and their families, lifting them up in prayer for strength, wisdom, and grace in their roles. Prayer can be a powerful source of encouragement and support for fathers as they navigate the challenges and joys of fatherhood. 

This Father's Day, let us show our appreciation and gratitude for the fathers and father figures in our lives. Let us also remember our heavenly Father, who loves us unconditionally and gives us the perfect example of fatherhood.

I am so incredibly grateful and indebted to Jesus that I was taught how to be a father when I never had an example of what a father should be. No matter the challenges in life, we can overcome them through Christ.

Happy Father's Day!